Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Nine Months Later: Our First Trade Show

Almost nine months to the day since we launched www.lifesaflipflop.com, we found ourselves at our first trade show!  We attended the Georgia Society of Directors of Volunteer Services (GSDVS) annual meeting at St. Simon's Island as a vendor and sponsor.  Our goal was to get feedback about our products, learn how hospital gift shops choose and buy products, and see if we are a good fit for that market.

Our Booth at the GSDVS Annual Meeting
We were overwhelmed with the positive reaction the attendees had to our product line!   It was a relatively small group, with only about 40 or 50 attendees and about 10 or 12 vendors.  But, we were the new kids on the block, and our colorful, fun, playful booth drew almost everyone's attention.  Even the other vendors stopped by to say how cool they thought our products were!

One of our favorite visitors, though, was actually   one of the hotel employees.  Let's just call him Billy.  He was so young, he barely had whiskers.  He worked as part of the banquet team, serving delicious hors d'oeuvres to the guests.  We kept noticing him coming by our booth and glancing at our products.  Each time, he'd come closer and closer but he would never stop and talk with us.

Finally, we asked him right out: "You keep coming by here.  Are you interested in our products?"

In a beautiful Southern drawl only heard (and perhaps appreciated) in that part of Georgia, he replied, "Oh, yes, Ma'am.  I just love your products.  I only wish I could get something for my girlfriend.  She's having a tough time right now and I just know she'd love one of those pink tee-shirts. I'd love to give her that as a gift to help cheer her up."

Of course, we were thinking, "This guy definitely gets what we're all about:  Sharing the gift of LAFFter!"

"Billy, we'd be glad to sell you one at our wholesale prices..."

"Oh, no Ma'am.   We're not allowed to do that while we're working.  But I sure do like those pink tee-shirts, Ma'am."

"Well, here...take a couple of koozies and a magnet which has our website on it, go online, order something, and remind us that we met you here and we'll throw in a little something extra for you and your girlfriend."  As we gave him a couple of koozies wrapped up in a lime green LAFF wrist band, he blushed from head to toe.

"Ma'am, that is so kind of you.  Thank you, Ma'am.  Yes, Ma'am, I'll go on your website tonight and order one of those tee-shirts for my girlfriend.  She is gonna love that.  Thank you, Ma'am."

Karen with Fred Farkles (a.k.a. Bart from Augusta)
So Billy was one of our favorites (other than the fact that being called "Ma'am" makes us feel old).  But, we also met Fred Farkles (a.k.a. Bart from Augusta), Daryl and Leigh (who were so helpful in helping us get registered), Gloria from Northside in Forsyth, Jean from St. Jo's, Jill from Jesup,  Lori from Wellstar, Lynn from Dalton, Tracie from Dublin, Tammy from Dallas, and a bunch of other really, really nice people.  Our overall impression of the group was that everyone was so nice!  Without exception, they thanked us for being there and supporting them!  Which really surprised us!

Until we we stopped to think it through.  These are the Directors of Volunteer Services for hospitals.  They may be volunteers themselves.  They are not on a corporate junket.  They don't have unlimited budgets for trade shows and conventions.  They must carefully pick and choose the conventions they attend, sometimes paying the registration fees and travel expenses themselves.  Although we didn't know it before we got there, the fee we paid to learn about this industry may have supported some of these volunteers in their ability to attend the conference, learn new insights about volunteerism, and mingle with friends old and new.  We unwittingly and unknowingly contributed to their experience.  In doing so, we gained a new perspective and a greater appreciation for the people who run the volunteer organizations at hospitals.  They are committed, sincere, hard-working, and no doubt, under appreciated.  But we surely appreciated them and their great feedback on our LAFF line.

And, along the way, we made some new friends, LAFFed for hours, and sold a couple of tee-shirts.  Does it really get any better than this?  Really?

Who knows, one day soon you may start seeing our LAFF products in a hospital gift shop near you!  We sure hope so!

Remember, always share the gift of LAFFter.   And, LAFF, in spite of everything!

Karen and Debra
March 13, 2012

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Life's A Flip Flop: Our First Year End Review

We'll only have one opportunity in our lifetime to have our "first" year end review, so we didn't want to miss it!  So, here is the first ever, once-in-a-lifetime, Life's A Flip Flop's First Year End Review!

Exactly one year ago, Life's A Flip Flop was nothing more than an idea in Karen's mind and some sketches on paper.  She must have known it was a good idea, though, because she had trademarked "Life's A Flip Flop", "LAFF," and "LAFF in spite of everything," and had formed a company called JimboLAFF, LLC to honor her brother.
On January 10, 2011, a huge, crippling ice storm hit Atlanta.  We found ourselves snowed in for several days, wishing instead we were strolling along the beach in flip flops.  At 3 a.m. on the second night of our imprisonment, we were sound asleep when suddenly both of the dogs went berserk, started barking hysterically, and raced each other to the living room.  I got up to calm them down, thinking maybe an icy tree limb had fallen and the noise had startled them.  


Ka-Rapp!  Someone was peering in the windows off the front porch!  Panicked, I ran back to the bedroom. 

"Karen," I whispered fearfully, "there's someone on the front porch!"

"Ummmppphhh," she replied.  Karen is a sound sleeper.

I shook her.  "Wake up!  There's someone on your front porch!"

My pulse was racing.  The dogs were still barking furiously.

"What?  Huh?  Call 911!" She was suddenly wide awake, but obviously not thinking clearly!

"There's an ice storm, silly.  They won't get here in time to save us!"

"Well, go see who it is, silly!"

Darn. Why do I always have to be the brave one?

I slithered back to the front door and in my deepest, manliest voice, shouted, "Who's there?  What do you want?"

A soft, mild-mannered, man's voice replied, "It's Pete, from across the street.  Frances's husband died and Tom and I don't know what to do with the body.  We need Karen to come and help us." And so began a long, sad, funny, freezing cold night full of some of our first LAFF moments.

The ice storm had covered everything with a three-inch thick, solid blanket of ice.  Nothing, and I mean nothing, was moving, especially Frances' poor dead husband.  She didn't want to call anyone until her children could come and say their last goodbyes, but the children -- grown adults -- lived 40 miles away.  It would be impossible for them to travel on the icy roads.  Karen finally talked her into allowing us to call 911, although the poor man had passed hours ago.

And so, along came Dekalb County's finest:  a fire truck with lights ablaze and wailing sirens, three EMTs, two police cars, and a hearse.  In the fiasco that followed, the fire truck got stuck in the ice and couldn't move, so they called the salt truck.  The salt truck slid into the police car and knocked off the rear bumper. The Dekalb County policeman couldn't decide if he should give the Dekalb County salt truck driver a ticket or not.  The hearse was actually an SUV driven by two men in crisp black suits, starched white shirts, somber ties, and rubber booties.  What a night!  Karen stayed with Frances until late the next morning, and Pete and Tom took turns relieving her until Frances' children finally arrived several days later.

A few weeks later, Frances called Karen and said, "I want you to know how much it meant to me that you came and made me laugh, in spite of everything."  This tiny, 86-year old woman had just validated Karen's idea for Life's A Flip Flop, LAFF in spite of everything.

So, we decided to invest in Karen's idea.  We went to Planet Studio, a creative agency in Atlanta and they helped us think through the messaging and created an awesome logo.  We met with Laura Coble, an awesome golfer and friend whose company, Bottom Line Products, produces promotional apparel and gift items.  We researched shopping carts and store fronts and blogging software and started designing our store.  We created a Facebook page and a Twitter account and updated our profiles in LinkedIn.  And soon after, we ended up in the emergency room.

No, starting a business is not that dangerous, but read on!

We had planned a Girl's Gone Wild poker party one night in late February.  We thought it would be a good idea to take the dogs for a long walk to tire them out before the guests arrived.  But, when we got back from the walk, as I went to the mailbox, Karen's dogs jumped out of the car and headed down the hill to my neighbor's house to visit with the dogs next door.  Suddenly, I heard a horrible howling, screaming, crying, wailing dog.  I ran around the side of the house and saw Karen on her knees trying to pry open the neighbor's dog's mouth, which was wrapped around Karen's dog's muzzle through the fence.  It was Skittles who was screaming.  Karen was beating the dog's head, but it wouldn't let go.  I ran down the hill and hit the dog with my brand new Apple Macbook Air and it finally let go of Skittles.  I turned to grab Skittle's collar to calm her down, and GRRR!  SNAP!  OUCH!  She bit me!  I know she didn't mean it.  She was frantic with pain and just lashed out at the first thing that came near her.

We were all a mess; Skittle's nose was covered in blood, my hand was covered in blood, and Karen's hands were covered in blood.  We didn't know how bad we were hurt or how bad Skittles was hurt, but we got both dogs back into the house and finally took a deep breath and assessed the damage.  I almost fainted when I saw my hand.  I had a deep, red gash the size of a dog's fang on my left hand.  Karen's hadn't fared any better.  Her ring finger on her right hand looked like it had been chewed by an angry dog.  In fact, it had been chewed by an angry dog!

"Karen," I said, holding my left hand high in the air and hanging on to the kitchen sink to keep from falling over, "I think we need to go to the Minute Clinic."

"The Minute Clinic?"  She looked at me as if I was stupid.  "Are you stupid?  We can't drive to the Minute Clinic!  We need an ambulance!  Call 911!"

Okay, so it's February 26, we've known each for not quite three months and we're calling 911 for the second time?  I've never been in an ambulance before.  I've never been in an emergency room for my own emergency before.  Heck, I've never been in a hospital for anything in my entire life!  What am I getting into, here?

They let us ride together in the ambulance and we quickly bonded with the driver and the EMT -- two cute blonds with pleasant smiles and really good drugs.  We were their first double dog bite.  At the hospital, they put us in different rooms where we waited for what seemed like hours.  Good thing we had our new iPhones with us.  We were able to send each other text messages and pictures of everything going on.  (If you really want to see the pictures of our wounds, just email us!  They are a little gross for posting.)  After some incredibly painful pain shots (in that soft skin in between the fingers), we got stitched up -- seven stitches each -- and headed back to the poker party, LAFFing, in spite of everything!

Karen's hand got infected and she had to have surgery and I have a really cool fang-shaped scar on my hand, but we both eventually recovered.

In March, Karen took on a new role at Corporate America which she just knew she would love.  I went to England to attend the funeral of my mother's sister's husband.  The night before the funeral, my mother's sister got really ill with pancreatitis, ended up the hospital, and missed the funeral.  It was very sad.

On March 25, on a magnificent spring day, we placed our first order for LAFF products while sitting outside having lunch at Peachtree Dekalb Airport.  We high-fived over our draft Guinness beers as we calmly ordered 500 pairs of LAFF flip flops, which would take eight weeks to be delivered from China.  As budding entrepreneurs and right-brained creative types, we were constantly coming up with new ideas for products.  Over the next few weeks, we also ordered 432 color tee shirts, 288 gray tee shirts, 900 bandanas, 432 hats, 400 tote bags, 500 magnets, and a partridge in a pear tree. By golly!  We wanted to be ready when Life's A Flip Flop went viral!  We would have enough inventory to last through the summer, at least!


While we waited for the inventory to arrive, we set up an office, built our inventory room, bought supplies, and continued to work on our website and order fulfillment processes.  We opened accounts with American Express, USPS, BigCommerce, iContact, SurveyMonkey, and LegalZoom.  And we kept coming up with even greater ideas for products that we knew our customers would just adore!

One fine day in mid-April, we were strolling through a arts and crafts shop and a small, rustic-looking wooden picture frame caught our eye.  We picked it up and examined it more closely.  It was nothing more than three pieces of old painted wood fastened together on the back with some cheap pine wood strips, attached with nails.  A three inch dowel rod was sticking out the bottom to prop it up on a shelf.  On the front was a piece of plexiglass on top of some distressed, painted plywood and some odd-looking fasteners to hold in the plywood and the plexiglass.  It was priced at  $49.95!!!  We looked at each other and at the exact same moment said, "We can make these!"

Later, as we lunched at an outdoor cafe on Canton Street in downtown Historic Roswell, our creative brains ran amok over the chilled Chardonnay.  We could make the frames and people could send us pictures of themselves and their friends in great LAFF moments and we could print out the pictures and put them in the frames and send them to their friends for $45 which is cheaper than that cheap looking frame we just saw and we would sell a million of them because it's such a cool idea and we'll be rich and do you think we should do it?  Well, as frequently happens with budding entrepreneurs and right-brain creative types, we probably got distracted by something else and forgot about the frames.

Or, at least, Karen forgot.  I didn't.  While she was away at the beach with her friends for her birthday, I made her a frame.  And put the ultimate Life's A Flip Flop photo in it.  And so began our LAFF Frames adventure!

We scoured the Craigslist ads looking for old repurposed barn wood and found a guy selling a huge pile of it for just $140.  It took us two days and six trips from Dahlonega to Roswell, but we finally got it all home in Karen's old Toyota 4Runner.  We bought sheets of birch plywood from Home Depot.  We bought reams of canvas paper to print the logo on.  We bought hundreds of pieces of glass.  We bought thousands of odd-looking fasteners to hold the plywood and the glass.  We bought dozens of cans of spray paint and stain and experimented with myriad color combinations.  We bought a new table saw and a drill press and set up shop in my garage.

While I power-washed the wood, cut it to size, and screwed (not nailed) it together with strips of pine, Karen sanded and spray painted the birch ply mattes and stained the frames.  We made dozens and dozens!  Of every color combination you can imagine!  We searched through our photo libraries, Facebook pages, and Google Images to find funny photos that epitomized the types of pictures we knew people would want to send each other.  We couldn't believe how great the frames turned out!  We took pictures of the pictures in the picture frames and got them all ready to sell in our new online website!  Being an entrepreneur is fun!

In May, Skittles got diagnosed with cancer and had to have surgery and chemotherapy.  Katie, Karen's 12-year old Shepard-mix, blew out her ACL chasing a squirrel and started walking on three legs.  Violent tornadoes ripped through Alabama and Georgia.  And, on May 25, 500 pairs of flip flops arrived on our front porch.  Followed shortly thereafter by boxes and boxes of tee shirts, hats, bandanas, magnets, cards, and packing supplies.  We bought every plastic storage box we found on sale, sorted and folded and cataloged and prepared for the big opening day!



On June 14, 2011, we launched www.lifesaflipflop.com!!!  We were so happy, we went out for margaritas and over-tipped the waitress!  Hey!  We're entrepreneurs!  Life is good!  (OOOOPS!  Did I just say that?  Blasphemy!)  Life's A Flip Flop and it was pretty flipping' good!  I can't tell you how excited we were the next day when my iPhone beeped, I check my email, and we had our first order!  WOW!!!  What a rush!  What excitement!  Who cares if the order was from Karen's mother!  We rushed to the inventory room, packed up our first little package, worked through our shipping process, and promptly drove the package to the post office.  We could have driven a few more miles and delivered the package in person, but it felt so much like a real business when we dropped our Priority Mail packages at the Post Office!

We were having so much fun at our LAFF business that Karen started to really dislike her job at Corporate America.  While I was having a blast tweaking images for the website, researching the best email marketing software, and collaborating with fellow bloggers, Karen was tweaking Excel spreadsheets, researching how to make customers seem happy with their financial products, and collaborating with fellow employees who feared massive layoffs.  So, two weeks after we launched www.lifesaflipflop.com, Karen resigned from Corporate America to work full time on LAFFing, in spite of everything!

In our first two weeks, we got nine more orders, all of them Karen's close personal friends.  But, that was good!  We always said we wanted to grow the business organically, spreading the good news by word of mouth, Facebook, and our own personal networks.  We secretly want it to go viral, since we have all that inventory, but we have to be realistic.  It will take more than a cool logo and a good story to make it go viral.  What we need are customers who love our products and who tell other people about them.

We had lots of conversations in those first few weeks about how to expand our product line, our network, and our customer base.  Some of the decisions were easier than others.  One of our friends asked us for XXL tee shirts, which we hadn't ordered.  So, guess what we did?  We ordered 90 more tee-shirts in size XXL!  We had to go buy some more plastic containers for the inventory room, but no problem!  We are being responsive to our customers needs!

Some of our ideas are better than others, too.  A good friend of ours is a veteran of the 3-Day Walk for the Cure.  She walks with a team of 50 or so other people trying to raise awareness and money to find a cure for breast cancer.  At the beginning of August, she asked us if her team could sell our products at various fund-raisers.  Sure!  That seemed like a great idea!  But, you know how us budding entrepreneurs and right-brain creative types are!  We can't just go with the first idea we come up with!  We have to expand on it!  Before we knew it, we went from providing a bunch of products to a friend to hosting a golf tournament called LAFF for the Cure!!!!

On a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being a no-brainer, the ease of execution of providing products to a friend is probably a 0.  Hosting a charity golf tournament is a 37!  Neither Karen nor I have ever hosted, sponsored, or otherwise tried to have a golf tournament, although we have both played in many of them over the years.  We knew instinctively that we needed to create a memorable experience for everyone involved in the tournament, from the players to the sponsors to the golf course staff.  And, that...we did!

Three months after we made the decision to host LAFF for the Cure, it became a reality!  In less than 90 days, we decided on the date, the menu, the format, and the prizes.  We found sponsors, donors, volunteers, players, and supporters.  We lined up free breakfast, free wine tasting, and complimentary adult beverages.  And, to top it all off, we held it on Halloween, with a costume contest, festive decorations, and a closest to the scarecrow contest!

To say that it felt like a success to us would be an understatement!  It felt like a bigger accomplishment than even launching www.lifesaflipflop.com!  We were able to focus our efforts on a single event and raise quite a lot of money to give to an extremely worthy cause.  Although we did it with some ups and downs -- and flips and flops -- we ended up feeling nothing less than fulfilled at being able to doing something good and give something back.

The LAFF for the Cure tournament was a turning point for us in a couple of ways.  We proved to ourselves we could do amazing things if we were focused.  We created a wonderful experience that got great feedback from everyone, and we had a ton of fun doing it.  And, we realized that we wanted to continue to organize charitable events or donate to charities or support charities in some form or another.

Since the tournament in October, we continue to try and refine the purpose and the direction of Life's A Flip Flop.  We may be budding entrepreneurs, but we're still novices after all!   There is so much to learn about every aspect of the business, from email marketing and search engine optimization to the imprintable apparel industry and wholesale purchasing.

One day, we ventured downtown to the Atlanta Apparel Mart, a confusing complex of three cavernous buildings with miles of hallways, thousands of vendor's stores, and millions of products.  This is where buyers from any store, gift shop, or website can go look at products from all over the world, meet with the vendors, and place their orders.  The Atlanta Apparel Mart holds specialty shows every few weeks, featuring different product lines like apparel or gifts or carpets or home goods.  On the day we went, there was no show, but some of the vendors were supposed to be open.  We registered at the front desk of one of the buildings, took an elevator to one of seven floors featuring "Gifts" and started wandering down the hallway.  But something didn't seem right.  There was no one around!  Karen and I were the only ones there, walking down dimly lit hallways and peering into darkened store fronts.  We wandered and wandered and wandered!  We turned this way and that way and got turned around and backtracked and got turned around again.  Even my normally excellent sense of direction was confused.  I didn't know where we were, where we'd been, or how in the heck we were going to get out of there!  Every hallway led to another hallway.  The elevators went no where.  The doors to the stairs were locked!  I was honestly starting to panic, and my feet hurt!

But Karen was like a little kid with a stolen credit card in a candy store.  "Oh, look at these flip flop note cards.  We should get some of those!"  "Check out those flip flop boxers!  They would look good with the gray tee shirts"  "Ooooh!  How cute are those flip flop ornaments!  We should get some for Christmas"  "Oh, I love that flip flop lamp shade!  Isn't that great?"

"Karen, we're lost.  They're going to close this place and we're going to get stuck in here and no one is going to know we're here."

"Oh, don't be silly.  Look at this over here...."

I hate being called silly.  "Karen, come on!"


"We're fine, silly!  Just look at this a minute.  You know, we could create a new LAFF kit with these and package them with the LAFF frames and..."

Did I mention I hate being called silly?  "Good-bye.  You're on your own."  I turned to leave.

"Wait!  Look at this.  This is really cool!  People will love this!"

"Karen, this entire place is filled with stuff people would love.  Even if we could buy everything we wanted,  we still need people to buy.  We don't need products, silly  We need customers!  We shouldn't be here being buyers of someone else's products, we should be trying to figure out how to get more buyers for our products!"

"But..."

"No 'buts'...."

"I know.  You're right.  But this is so much fun!"

"No 'buts!' You said 'but'!  But, you're right, too.  This is the fun part.  But, let's get the heck out of here and go have a Guinness and figure out how to get more customers."

We've probably had a conversation something like this at least once a week since we opened the business.  Do we invest in expanding our product line so our existing customers buy more from us? Or, do we invest in expanding our customer base so they can buy our existing products?  Or, is there some strategy we're missing?  We still don't know the answer to this question that must surely puzzle every budding entrepreneur who has ever launched a business.

We decided to focus on a hybrid business model:  getting our existing customers to buy more of our existing inventory while at the same time expanding the inventory of things they could buy and expanding our customer base.  

Perfect!  Let's order some more products!  But what to order?  Let's ask our customers, silly!  (Are we smart, or what?)  We sent out a little survey in November to our marketing email list, which we have been cultivating since early in the year.  A lot of the names on the list are our personal friends, but we also added people from our LinkedIn, Facebook, and Twitter connections.  And, when someone sends us an email with a bunch of names in the cc: list, we grab those names, too, and add them to our marketing email list.  This is known as growing organically!  (If you think we're spamming, don't worry.  People can unsubscribe with one click.  We get dozens of emails a day from companies we've never heard of.  If we don't want to get them anymore, we simply unsubscribe.)

So, in the survey, we asked people if they would prefer a Polartec vest, a white golf polo shirt, or a long-sleeve tee shirt.  By an overwhelming majority, people voted for the Polartec vest!  Wow!  That's great!  We got input from our target audience on our next product offering!  We'll probably sell hundreds of them!  So, guess what we did?  Ha!  Noooooo, we didn't order hundreds.  We're finally learning!  We ordered about three dozen in the majority of the sizes people said they usually ordered (medium, large, and extra large).  And, we bought them at wholesale prices from a local distributor of imprint-able apparel.  And, we found a small, local embroidery shop who will do small quantity production runs for a very reasonable price!  Okay, we also bought about six dozen more long sleeve tee shirts, but who's counting?

Wow!  By now it's almost Thanksgiving and everyone...I mean everyone....is having a Black Friday sale.  Hey!  We can do that!  Heck, we can do better than that!  We can have a Black Friday through Cyber Monday sale!  Our customers should be flocking to the website for 25% discounts on our existing products plus free shipping on orders over $50!  That's what everyone else is doing so why shouldn't we?  So, we spent a day or three taking new pictures of all our products wrapped in their holiday finest, updating the website, figuring out how to offer free shipping discounts, and  creating an email campaign to send out to our marketing email list.  We probably put 40 hours of work into our Black Friday through Cyber Monday promotion.  We were absolutely positive that we'd see an uptick in sales!


On Black Friday,  we heard no beeps on the iPhone to signal a new order.  None on Saturday.  None on Sunday.  None on Cyber Monday.  Our very first Black Friday through Cyber Monday sale was a bust!  So, we had a great idea!  Let's extend it through the end of the year!  Yeah!  A storewide discount of 25% plus free shipping for any orders over $50!  Send out another email and let everyone know!  Surely that promotion will start a flood of orders!

We got three orders in December.  From repeat customers!  They ordered the new products!  Our strategy is working!  We hope!

Seriously.  We hope our strategy is working.  There is nothing we would like more than to be able to offer great products that our customers want at a reasonable price so we can use the profits to sponsor golf tournaments and other charity events and give something back to the planet.  Seriously.  That's what we've figured out in our inaugural year.  We're not trying to be fabulously wealthy.  We're not trying to grow an empire.  We can imagine how different our lives would be if Life's A Flip Flop really did go viral and we don't think we like the vision of a global, viral phenomenon called LAFF.  Unless, of course, that's what you, our dear customer, wants for us! Then we'll be happy to step up to the plate!

But, we would like to support ourselves doing something we love, create a great experience for our customers, and be able to organize fun and exciting events like LAFF for the Cure so we can give a lot back to causes that need a helping hand.  Causes that need a LAFF.  Causes that would benefit from seeing life's ups and downs as flips and flops.  Where our motto, "Lifes's A Flip Flop!  LAFF, in spite of everything!" would resonate and promote camaraderie, friendship, and maybe even the healing power of LAFFter.  That's what Karen's brother, Jimbo, would have wanted us to do.

So, that's what we're looking to do in 2012.  For all of you who have supported us in our first half-year of business, we sincerely thank you.  We couldn't have done it without you.  We don't want to do it without you going forward!  We want you to tell us what you want, tell us how we're doing, and tell us how we can do better.  We're committed to living our vision.  We truly hope you'll choose to live it with us.

Happy New Year!
Debra Partridge and Karen Guest
Managing Partners
Life's A Flip Flop
www.lifesaflipflop.com

Saturday, November 19, 2011

7 Lessons from LAFF for the Cure


It's been just over two weeks since we held our first charity golf tournament, LAFF for the Cure!  We were thrilled, excited, pumped up, and exhausted!  What a lot of work but what a lot of fun!  We couldn't have asked for a better tournament in our inaugural year!  Based on the feedback we've received from the players, sponsors, volunteers, and golf course staff, it was a great event and we've set the stage for an even greater event next year.


MARK YOUR CALENDARS!!!  
Next year's tournament will be on October 8, 2012 and the theme is OKTOBERFEST!  Get your lederhosen and beer steins ready!  We'll be serving kielbasa, soft pretzels, wiener schnitzel, and lots of beer!  No need to go to Helen, Georgia in October next year, just come to Brookfield Country Club on October 8 and play in the LAFF for the Cause tournament!

Oh, did you notice the name change?  We've decided that we absolutely love raising money for charities!  So, in addition to the Pink Angel Street Walkers and Susan G. Komen for the Cure, we will be adding some more charities to our recipients list for next year.  Our goal is to donate more than 50% of everything we collect to various charities.

We learned a lot in our inaugural year and wanted to share it with you in case you are planning a charity golf tournament in the future (or are just curious about how this stuff works).


7 Lessons Learned from the Inaugural LAFF for the Cure Golf Tournament

1.  Sponsors are the key to making the biggest donation to the charities.  A little more than 75% of the player registration fee goes to the per person cost of the tournament (golf, food, drinks, prizes, etc).  So, the more players we have, the more revenue we raise, but we still wouldn't be able to do much better than a 25% contribution to the charities.  Our goal for 2012 is a 50% contribution to the charities, so we need more sponsors.

2.  Start planning and telling people about LAFF for the Cause as far in advance as possible.  This year, we came up with the idea for the tournament just 90 days before we held it!  We were SOOOO naive (but SOOOO optimistic)!  This year, we got 81 people to play and gave 25% of all the revenue back to the charity, so we think we didn't do too bad in our inaugural year! We're starting NOW to tell people about 2012!

3.  Men should play from the blue tees and women should play from the forward tees.  We heard from quite a few folks that a lot of the men were nearly driving the greens on Brookfield's shorter par 4 holes.  We set it up to play shorter than normal to make sure that the pace of play was acceptable (that is, under 5 hours).  Seemed like a good idea, but turned out to be a little unfair for a mixed tournament.  Apparently most charity tournaments have a bias towards all men or all women....there are very few that are as mixed (up) as our LAFF for the Cause!  We love that!  We want everyone -  husbands and wives, friends and neighbors, brothers and sisters, best friends and significant others -- to feel welcome and comfortable playing in our tournament.

4.  We need to be better prepared with our "speeches."  We almost missed an opportunity to recognize the cause we were supporting and to thank everyone who participated in the tournament, from the players and sponsors to the volunteers and the staff.  Next year, we'll be a little better organized and prepared when everyone comes in for lunch!

5.  Never underestimate the value of tangible items at a silent auction.  We were a little disappointed that we didn't raise more money from our silent auction, but we think it was because the items weren't visible.  We had sign up sheets, but we didn't have much information for you to read about what you were bidding on.  Next year....more and better silent auction items and better descriptions!

6.  Volunteers make all the difference in the world.  We had about 12 volunteers -- including folks from the Pink Angel Street Walkers and a couple of close personal friends of ours -- who volunteered to do "whatever it takes" to make the tournament run smoothly.  They started on Sunday afternoon setting up decorations on the golf course and worked all day Monday, monitoring holes for prizes and keeping things running smoothly in the clubhouse.  You may not have noticed them, but they were the key to the success of the tournament!  They worked hard, but had fun, and many of you commented on how  enthusiastic and friendly they were.  Next year?  More volunteers!

7.  No matter how much we donated, the key to success is the feeling people have at the end of the day.  We left the tournament exhausted, exhilarated, and enthusiastic about doing it again next year.  Many people said they would come back again next year, and we can't wait!  We wanted to be able to donate more than we did this year but, at the end of day, it was the feeling of doing something that matters and doing it for a great cause that really matters.

We had fun, we worked hard, and we learned a lot.  Now, we can't wait until October 8, 2012 so we can do it again!  We really hope you'll join us!

Debra Partridge & Karen Guest
Managing Partners
Life's a Flip Flop
www.lifesaflipflop.com

Friday, September 23, 2011

When should you send the Gift of LAFFter?

We all know someone who is going through a tough time.  Perhaps they lost their job.  Their house foreclosed.  Their home flooded.  They lost their pet.  They were injured or became terminally ill.  Or perhaps they lost a family member or friend.  It is our human nature to want to offer comfort to people who are grieving, but when is the right time to reach out to them and let them know you are thinking of them?

The answer, of course, is “it depends.”  It depends on your relationship, the cause of their grief, and perhaps even their sense of humor.  But knowing a little about the grieving process may help you decide when the time is right.

In 1969, Elizabeth Kübler introduced a model of the grieving process that applies to almost every situation when someone is going through a rough time.  It is called the DABDA model and includes five stages:

Denial: The first reaction when you hear bad news.  “No, that can’t be right.” “This can’t be happening.”  “I don’t believe it.”


Anger:  Anger is a reaction to the pain you feel and is an important part of the healing process.  “It’s not fair!”  “Go away! Leave me alone!”  “I hate you!”

Bargaining:  When the anger starts to subside, it is interspersed with bargaining.  “If only I had done something differently."  “I promise I’ll never do that again if only this changes.” “I’ll devote the rest of my life to this cause so it never happens again.”

Depression:  Sometimes the lengthiest and most difficult emotional stage is when you realize that no amount of bargaining will change the outcome.  “What’s the use of trying?”  “It won’t make any difference.”  “I might as well just give up.”

Acceptance:  When you can finally agree to live with the loss or change or whatever else happened, you start the acceptance process.  “Everything is going to be okay.”  “It’s alright, I can live with this.”  “I guess I might as well go out with my friends again.”

No one goes through the five stages of grief in the same sequence or in the same amount of time.  Psychiatrists just know that we all go through the five stages of grief in one form or another – regardless of the severity of the loss or tragedy.  Grieving is simply a natural and healthy part of life itself.

So, when do you send the Gift of LAFFter to someone in the various stages of grieving?  Again, it depends, but here are some guidelines:
      
  • First, you have to be very sensitive to the severity of the loss or tragedy and where the person is in the grieving process.  Obviously, immediately after the loss of a loved one is not an appropriate time as the recipient will likely still be dealing with their denial and anger.

  • What often happens after a tragedy is that the person is surrounded by friends and family who provide them with support and comfort.  However, one or maybe two months afterwards, when everyone has returned home to go on with their busy lives, the person is left alone and is probably in some degree of depression or acceptance.  This can be a good time to send the Gift of LAFFter. 

  • Make sure you tell them you chose the gift because of what it meant to you.  Personalize the message that you send with it to say, “I’m sending you this gift because I understand what you’re going through, because I went through something similar and I want you to know that you will soon be able to LAFF again   It took me some time to realize that it’s okay to LAFF. You are still going to have good and bad days – and flips and flops -- but give yourself permission to LAFF.”

 LAFFter is what got me through a tragic loss.  Please, share the Gift of LAFFter -- at the appropriate time.

Karen Guest

Friday, July 15, 2011

Get a FREE Life's a FLip Flop LAFF Hugger and Magnet!

We want to meet people in every state who love Life's a Flip Flop and love to LAFF, so we're giving away FREE Life's a Flip Flop LAFF Huggers and LAFF Magnets to the first three people in every state to register!

It's easy!  You just have to complete two steps:

1.  LIKE our Facebook page.
2.  Create an account on our website and enter your name and address (so we know where to send your FREE Life's a Flip Flop LAFF Hugger and Magnet!)

That's all there is to it!  If you are one of the first three people from your state to register, we'll send you a FREE Life's a Flip Flop LAFF Hugger and LAFF Magnet within a few weeks!

Don't forget to tell your friends how they can get a FREE Life's a Flip Flop LAFF Hugger and LAFF Magnet!

(Fine print:  Available to U.S. residents only.  Please allow 2 - 3 weeks to receive your shipment.)

Thursday, July 14, 2011

The Dreaded Yard/Garage/Moving/Estate Sale

One of the hardest jobs with typically the lowest return for your effort.  Or at least that’s what we thought. 

First, you have to determine your marketing strategy.  Is it a Yard Sale, Garage Sale, Moving Sale or an Estate Sale?  Each has different connotations and attracts different types of buyers.   Yard equals stuff you are tired of and are willing to spend hours cleaning out drawers, cabinets, closets and pricing stuff for 25 cents.  You make $32.15 for 2 weeks of work and a 10-hour day that starts with folks arriving before dawn to haggle you down to 10 cents.  Then you load up all the stuff left, which is the majority and haul it to Goodwill.

A Garage sale is the next step up.  You actually have some things that others may want such as tools and garden items.  Maybe some Holiday items and bric bracs like geese wearing bonnets and roosters plates that have lost their appeal to you.   Still hours of work, a10-hour day, and you haul stuff that didn’t sell to Goodwill. But you make $121.50.

Next is the Moving Sale.  You have good stuff but maybe you are combining households or it just is too much trouble to move.  If you find a good one of these you’ve stuck gold!!  

Finally, the Estate Sale also known as Great Aunt Ethel passed on but left behind old musty, dusty “antiques” that no one wants.   This is where some snooty estate appraiser is going to take a percentage of the sale so the prices are ridiculous and the stuff just gives you the creeps.

Well, we decided that our sale was in the Moving Sale category but couldn’t find preprinted signs so we called it a Garage Estate Sale.  Logic being we’d just attract anyone we could.  And we did!!

We had some of the nicest people you could meet come to the Sale.  During the Sale, we told the story of LAFF and were amazed at people’s reactions and the support.  It started with Mark who just happened to be passing time while waiting to pick up a friend from Shepard Spinal Center.  Before he left, we both got a little teary eyed about losing someone you love.  Then came Renee, Rob, Carol, Laura, Gladys, Max, Heather, Sheri and the list goes on.  We had Vietnam Vets, Antique Dealers, Country Music Fans, Single Moms, Newly Weds, Retirees, and just lots of folks who work hard and are trying to stretch their dollars.  Many are now our friends on facebook!  We gave away lots of LAFF magnets and LAFF huggers and can’t wait until the first time we spot someone driving around Atlanta with a LAFF magnet on their car.  

So to all who were a part of our Garage Estate Sale, thank you for stopping by, sharing a story and a LAFF, and for your heartfelt support for Life’s a Flip Flop.   We’ve never LAFFed so much at a Yard/Garage/Moving/Estate Sale!

Karen and Debra

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

New Lower Prices on Lifesaflipflop.com

The lifesaflipflop.com website has been available for shopping for a couple of weeks now.  We are absolutely thrilled at the feedback we've been receiving about the website, our philosophy, our products and gifts, and our ideas for expansion.  Our facebook page is gaining fans daily and soon we will start actively tweeting and twitting about the things that make us LAFF.

In the meantime, we've decided to lower prices on some of our most popular products and gifts.  As of today, we've lowered the price on flip flops, LAFF kits, and custom frames.  And, we'll soon be adding some new, lower-priced gifts that you can send as a Gift of LAFFter for under $20!

Why are we doing this?  Well, first of all, we didn't start down this path to get filthy rich!  Lifesaflipflop.com is dedicated to Jimbo, Karen's brother who was killed by a drunk driver several years ago.  It was his philosophy of "LAFFing in spite of everything" that helped Karen get through her painful loss.  So, we started lifesaflipflop.com to honor Jimbo and share his philosophy with as many people as we can.  After our initial launch with the original prices, we feel that lowering the prices to make the gifts more affordable to more people is the right thing to do.  The more we can share the Gift of LAFFter, the more we can honor Jimbo, spread his philosophy, and contribute to our favorite charities.

Thank you to everyone who has supported lifesaflipflop.com.  We look forward to providing you with great products and great service for many years to come!

LAFF, in spite of everything!
Karen and Debra